My X girl friend wants to get together and talk?  Some of you out there might remember this girl from a few of my blog entries.  She's the one the lied to me time and time again.  Well she just got engaged about a month ago.  It was printed in our local paper.  The dates that her new fiancé quoted as being their first date anniversary was well with-in the time her and I were still together.  So she got caught again.... red handed.  I did love her.  And in many ways do miss her.  We shared some good times and a lot of growing together over the 3.5 years we were together.  I don't know what here intentions are.  I do know she said yes to this guy because her ultimate goal was "just to be married"  She had a terrible up bringing and was in the thought of being in love / married.  That's one of the reasons that I never felt totally that "I was the one".... but more like I was "just some one".  I think I will meet her.  My goal is to tell her that I forgive her.  I want her to be happy and I don't want to cause any problems.  If she is going to get on with her life she needs some sort of closer.  Even though she is engaged to this other guy....  she is still "hung-up" on me ---  as strange as it might seem with what I have said.  I have a give of communication that I know she is missing and not to be conceited...  she and I had a major sexual connection beyond belief.  I hope that isn't in her mind for our meeting....